How to deal with the elephant in the room with family over Christmas

20 dec, 2021,

A few tips [written as opinion – a mindful hint not literal advice].

If the elephant that has been ignored for so long bursts into the dining room this Christmas and starts trumpeting opinions, perceptions and biases about covid, before engaging, remember that people who are traumatised often cover it up with defensiveness and the need to be right. Being in control gives people the feeling of being safe. It’s a delusion and a sinking raft but they cling to it.

They feel reassured by everyone around them “doing the right thing” for the greater good whatever they might perceive that to be and they may well feel threatened by contradiction. Contra in Latin means against, diction means the script or set of rules as laid out by dictat for moral following in days of old. Morals and ethics cast by the wayside since then, there is a mass formation of unquestioning mindlessness going on right now and people are caught up in a matrix of rewired mental mapping like flies in a spider’s web except that flies know they are caught. Devotees of the covidian cult are unaware that they have been re programmed by trauma based mind control which has been honed by those in authority over countless eras.

If you find yourself on the defensive this Christmas, don’t let others’ insecurity rub off on you or let yours damage whatever relationships you have. Avoid aggression and the need to be on a moral high ground. It’s nothing but an energetic mirror for the division that has been orchestrated by the expert manipulators of humanity. You can’t win by meeting the enemy on noman’s land. The fuel for the fires of division are based in fear and control. So if you are in fear of being judged and feel the need to get others into your way of thinking, the energy is no different than that of those expecting, even bullying you into compliance. It’s a trap to get us all fighting in the trenches forgetting where the enemy lies.

There is another way than direct confrontation over the Christmas feast. A more Nobel path that can enable a flourishing of humanitarian growth in us all and one which may plant seeds with vital sparks which when comes to fruition crack open the dark encasing of perception and obeyance to mindless diktats. Don’t invest in hope. That is an empty vessel drifting on an open sea. A more compassionate stance could earn you more respect and lead to a healing conversation. If you need others validation or approval more than you need the vibe to be mutually convivial perhaps you need to make steps to emotionally mature and detach yourself from the need to be approved of. A true Nobel being does not need approval since they come from a position of equanimity. They may detach from the argument and see two children arguing over which colour toy is better.

Insecurity manifests as a need to control. Those still under the covidian cult spell adherence may not be aware of their psychosis. You don’t need to collude with it but also it can rub off on you by what’s known as sympathetic resonance. Two objects that vibrate to the same note. You don’t if you choose have to vibrate to that out of tune frequency. You can rise above it and choose another station (radio analogy). Christmas time is no better time to practice the art of mindful non-violent communication. Like a muscle it takes time to become strong and to become a master at it you need to spend more time listening than talking. Really listening, not just thinking ahead of your next correction and factual outpour to win your argument.

Try and avoid the need to make others wrong by correcting their view of the narrative. Either bite your lip and change the subject or take a deep breath and avoid blurting out the deep rabbit hole information that you have painstakingly researched and cannot in your wildest imagination understand why they don’t get it. Instead how about adopting a neutral position and stay in your sovereignty by remaining calm as if you are a listening counsellor to someone who is stuck in an abusive relationship, has Stockholm syndrome, is terrified of that truth being revealed, quite possibly ashamed at the abuse they have allowed themselves to experience and in cognitive dissonance. They may be in denial of the truth because the truth that their guardian and protector, aka jailor/slave master may not care about them as much as they believe they do is gonna hurt. It’s a choice to be become conscious.

Tip 1: Don’t get personal and insult each other.

Try asking leading questions – not personal probing ones – and plant a few seeds before changing the subject diplomatically onto a more palatable topic.

Rather than berating those who have not twigged what’s really going on and are still in the fear trauma spell of the covid narrative, a good set of questions to ask those who get that the other puppet tyrants around the world are diktators but don’t get the agenda and still go along with the rules without resistance.

“Do you feel something is not right about the rules and what we are being told about covid?”

“Do you believe that puppet diktators lie?” “How often? Just every now and then or all the time?” “Why do you trust them with covid news if they lie all the time?” “Do you think they wouldn’t lie over that too?” “Have you heard of The Big Lie? As used by the most infamous diktator in history, Adolf Hitler.

The big lie (German: große Lüge) is a gross distortion or misrepresentation of the truth, used especially as a propaganda technique.[1][2] The German expression was coined by Adolf Hitler, when he dictated his 1925 book Mein Kampf, to describe the use of a lie so colossal that no one would believe that someone “could have the impudence to distort the truth so infamously.” Hitler claimed that the technique was used by Jews to blame Germany’s loss in World War I on German general Erich Ludendorff, who was a prominent nationalist political leader in the Weimar Republic.

Lastly Silence is golden. Try to avoid filling the silences with excuses and rational propositions and arguments that you know is going to trigger others. Your silence when mastered gives you a gravitas and solid stance that knows it is unmoveable. When you are able to still shine, despite being provoked or under attack, you lead by example and display an attractive eminence that is an invitation for those in fear to transition into a frequency of love and mutual respect.


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